He Cheated On Me But I Miss Him – How are you supposed to win back an ex-boyfriend if he cheated on you? Do you still want him back? I admit these are some of the most frequently asked questions I get on this site. Today I will do my best to answer both for you. If you’re new to my site just a heads up, every page I write is much more in-depth than my peers. Each page is based on in-depth research (from experts), stories of women who have achieved success, and my own personal experience. So instead of writing more filler content, I’d rather talk about the things that can actually do something for you!
Heck yes it is possible! Of course, the real question is, do you want him back? I have found that many women I have worked with who have been cheated on decide not to get their exes back because they feel so much better about themselves after reading the process on this page.
It is important to understand why your boyfriend cheated on you. In this section, I’ll give you some insights into the male psyche so you can understand why a man will cheat on you. Of course, there are many different reasons why a man finally decides to cheat on his girlfriend, but I have to say that the most common reason would be because he is just horny.
Basically, he sees something he wants and goes to get it. While I think it’s a terrible betrayal of trust to cheat on someone (why not break up with them before moving on?) I think it could be done here that evolution plays a role in your “horny”. At its core, a human being is instilled with a primal need to replicate/reproduce. Humans were never meant to be monogamous creatures. While I think it says a lot about the rise of humans that we slowly evolved into a race seeking a significant other, we weren’t originally intended to do that.
Now, I don’t want you to sit there and feel like I’m somehow “for” cheating, because I’m not. I am simply explaining to you why your ex would feel the need to cheat on you. I find it a little comforting to accept the fact that your ex didn’t cheat on you because of something you had, but because he can’t have sexual urges per se. Which brings us to the next section.
When I write these words, I get a little disturbed. Part of me wants to tell you to move on, but another part of me wants to help you. You clearly came here because you want your ex-boyfriend back, and I want to help you do that, but most of all, I want to help you. Sometimes that means telling you to run the other way. So I’m just going to say this:
The only way I can justify my help is if you have a legitimate reason to get back together with your ex.
Here’s the deal: Before you try to win your ex-boyfriend back (if he cheated on you), I’m going to ask you to do something that might be a little unorthodox. I want you to implement a no contact rule. If you’re familiar with my website, you know that I’m a big believer in the no contact rule. Usually the most powerful part of the no contact rule is its ability to knock a guy off his feet and make him wonder why you haven’t tried contacting him yet, leaving him really looking forward to when you finally decide to reach out.
You’re in a unique situation, so I’m going to ask you to implement the no contact rule for a completely different reason. I want you to use this as a kind of self-check. When you read my page, you could still be very close to your breakup, in terms of time. As you can probably imagine, making big decisions like getting back with an ex who cheated on you is not a choice you should make when you’re emotionally unstable (no offense). The normal no contact period shall last for one month or 30 Days. That means you can’t text, email, Facebook, Google Plus, or talk to your ex on the phone. You’ve essentially cut off all communication. However, I would say you increase the no contact period in this case to 45 days
If after that time you still want to get your ex back, I say go for it. Notice how you will use the three-pronged no contact rule.
During your 45 days of no contact, you’ll obviously have to do some thinking. As stated above, you will have to decide if you want to get your ex boyfriend back. You may find that after 45 days you just don’t have the same desire to get it back when you started the NC period. If this happens to you, you should probably move on to someone new.
Since we are dealing with someone who has cheated on you, what you really need to find out is if he is the type of person who will cheat at any time. Here are some qualities that cheaters tend to have.
It’s time, you’ve waited, hopefully 45 days, and it’s finally time to try and win your ex back. Now, before I go into a lengthy explanation of each step you should take, I feel it’s important to mention that I’ve put together a great resource on how to get your ex back here. While I’m going to talk about what you should do on this page, I can tell you that the page I just linked to goes into more detail (which you’ll definitely need).
Alright, now that I’ve got that out of the way, you can dive into how to contact your ex boyfriend after 45 days.
Usually what happens is your ex will contact you at one point during the NC period. This is a really good sign because it means they are interested or concerned about you. Basically, they have feelings for you that are what you want. Now, the whole point of the no contact rule is to not contact your ex, so you are not allowed to reply to them once they have contacted you during the initial 45 day period. Understand that basically ignoring them will make them very angry. I’m here to tell you that you don’t care how they feel. At least, not at this time.
What will happen is that when you finally decide to contact them, they will be overjoyed. They’ve been waiting all along to hear from you, and when the moment finally comes, they’ll be so excited they’ll probably run up and down the stairs and do all the things guys do when they’re happy.
Before moving on, I’ll take a few moments to go over each of the options and explain why texting is the way to go.
Call – it’s too early. As I’ve said many times on this site, you have to earn the right to call your ex, or in this case, your ex has to earn the right to call you. Also, when you’re talking on the phone, you don’t have time to think. You have to say exactly the right thing at the right time for things to work out the way you want them to. However, the biggest downside to calling an ex is the fact that you can get angry, raise your voice and start a fight if something is said that you don’t like. Well, it might seem like I really want to call, but I swear I don’t. Indeed, there is a time and a place to use phone calling as a way to get in touch with your ex, but only after your ex has earned the right to call them. I think I do a good job of explaining when is the right time to call in the link I provided at the beginning of this section.
Writing a letter – it’s scary. Can you imagine getting a letter after 45 days of no contact from someone you thought didn’t want to talk to you? Also, sending a letter is a bold statement that basically screams I still love you. There’s no way to send a letter it’s “easy” it’s basically an all or nothing thing
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